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Soft & Sensual
The gentler side: cuddle puddles, tantra, sensual movement, intimacy and consent workshops, and classes that teach more than they show.
Fri, Oct 30, 6:30–10 PM · Soft & SensualCommunity Cuddles
Non-sexual, consensual touch, starting with a short workshop on knowing what you want, asking for it and setting boundaries. Then it’s open cuddling until 9:30. You never have to touch anyone, and you always ask first. Clothes stay on (shorts and a t-shirt at minimum), and it’s sober. 18+, $34.
- Fri, Oct 30, 6:30–10 PM · Soft & Sensual
Community Cuddles *ARVADA* October 30th, 2026
A platonic cuddle night that opens with 60 to 90 minutes of structured practice on asking for what you want and setting boundaries. You never have to touch anyone. Come clean and sober, and stay in at least shorts and a T-shirt.
Tue, Nov 3, 6–7:30 PM · Soft & SensualDealing with Overstimulation in Romance for Those on the Spectrum
A supportive class for autistic and neurodivergent folks who find romance and intimacy overwhelming. Expect guided discussion and exercises on spotting sensory overload early, communicating boundaries and staying connected while you regulate.
- Wed, Nov 4, 6–8 PM · Soft & Sensual
Getting Moist: How to Have Amazing Foreplay
A sex-ed class all about the warm-up, covering communication, consent and the physical and emotional sides of foreplay, plus some creative techniques. It's open to every orientation and relationship style.
- Thu, Nov 5, 7–8:15 PM · Soft & Sensual
Tantric Yoga (Clothing Optional)
A gentle tantric flow of breath, sound, meditation and movement, aimed at self-compassion and joyful sensuality. It's clothing-optional, so wear whatever feels comfortable. Bring a mat and a cozy blanket or towel.
- Fri, Nov 6, 6–9 PM · Soft & Sensual
Flesh & Paper: An evening of erotic collage
Scissors, glue sticks and a stack of vintage adult magazines. After a short intro to collage and the history of erotic art, you'll make a piece about desire, with music and snacks. All materials are provided and no drawing skills are needed.
- Sat, Nov 7, 6–8 PM · Soft & Sensual
Erotic Touch for Couples with Goddess Mak
A couples' class on intentional, attuned touch. The exploration is guided and non-sexual, with interactive exercises in communication, consent and mindfulness that you can take home.
Sat, Nov 7, 11 AM–12:30 PM · Soft & SensualKinky Partner Yoga
Fox and mtn grrl lead partnered yoga poses with a playful kinky twist, like a little light flogging in Downward Dog. Touch stays within clear non-sexual boundaries. Bring your own partner. No yoga or BDSM experience needed.
Sat, Nov 7, 7:30–10:30 PM · Soft & SensualSpeed Dating Beyond Small Talk | Denver Speed Dating | Tantra Speed Date®
Speed dating built on tantra-inspired connection exercises instead of small talk, for open-minded singles. It runs three hours and you can come solo.
Sun, Nov 8, 2:30–6 PM · Soft & SensualCommunity Cuddles Nov 8 Boulder
A monthly gathering for platonic, consensual touch, with clear agreements and a required welcome circle at 2:45. Stay sober, dress cozy rather than sexy, and bring snacks or pillows if you like.
- Sun, Nov 8, 5–8 PM · Soft & Sensual
Savage Garden Party
The Sanctuary's art social for artists and dreamers, with themed rooms like a tea-party café and a writing workshop, plus a quest board for finding collaborators. Free tickets are available at the door if money's tight.
Sun, Nov 8, 11 AM–12:30 PM · Soft & SensualYoga for Better Orgasms
Gentle movement, breathwork and meditation focused on the pelvis, belly and throat. There's no sexual touch or partner work. The point isn't a finish line but reconnecting with your body at your own pace.
Tue, Nov 10, 7–9 PM · Soft & SensualIncreasing Your Erotic Magnetism
Kaelen Marie's embodied flirting class covers body language, eye contact, presence and the kind of chemistry that doesn't require trying too hard. It's about playfulness, not manipulation.
- Tue, Nov 10, 7–9:30 PM · Soft & Sensual
Pleasure Seekers: Fantasy and Desire
Free monthly sex-ed with AASECT-certified sex therapist Amanda Jepson, this time on cultivating your erotic imagination. The activities are guided and low-stakes, and nobody puts you on the spot to share your fantasies.
Wed, Nov 11, 6–8 PM · Soft & SensualConquering Sexual Shame
Introspective exercises and candid discussion to help you identify where sexual shame comes from and start loosening its grip. It's led by longtime educator Fawn O'Breitzman.
Thu, Nov 12, 6:30–9 PM · Soft & SensualGet Your Flirt On: An Attraction 101 Workshop
Dating coach and Sex and the Solo Girl podcast host Janice Formichella teaches the art of flirting offline. It includes a flirting-style assessment, frank tips, live dating Q&A and mingling, plus a drink on arrival.
Fri, Nov 13, 6–7:30 PM · Soft & SensualEnjoying Sex with Chronic Pain
A compassionate class for individuals and couples navigating intimacy with chronic pain or illness. It covers mindfulness, supportive props, adapted positions and other ways to connect, with joy over performance.
Sun, Nov 15, 5–6:30 PM · Soft & SensualSacred Sensuality Series | Women's Somatic Embodiment Circle
A softly guided women's circle that mixes breathwork, gentle movement, journaling and honest conversation to help you reconnect with your body, confidence and pleasure. Come for one session or the whole series.
- Wed, Nov 18, 6–8 PM · Soft & Sensual
Discovering Sexual Joy
Guided exercises, discussion and mindfulness practice to help you stay present, quiet the distractions and reconnect with pleasure, rooted in positive sexuality. All genders, orientations and relationship styles are welcome.
Fri, Nov 20, 7–9:30 PM · Soft & SensualDenver Cuddle Puddle
A platonic intimacy night led by somatic practitioner Jessica Langley. It starts with exercises and discussion on boundaries, consent and touch, and the cozy part comes after. It's substance-free and scent-free, and not a hookup scene.
- Sat, Nov 21, 2–4 PM · Soft & Sensual
A Modern Guide to Masculinity
An interactive workshop with sex and relationship coach Alex of Meridian Coaching. Through guided reflection and group discussion, you look at the messages you've absorbed about strength, sex and vulnerability, and how they shape your relationships.
Sat, Nov 21, 2:30–6 PM · Soft & SensualCommunity Cuddles Nov 21, Goddess Temple Denver
Cuddles, consent, community and snacks. A required welcome circle sets the agreements, and you never have to touch anyone. Come sober, scent-free and in comfy clothes.
Sat, Nov 21, 6–10 PM (doors close at 6) · Soft & SensualDance Meets Tantra: Rendezvous @ Denver CO, an Evening Immersion
Conscious dance meets neo-tantra in three phases: building trust and boundaries, then playful partnered practices, then a long sensual dance to close. Beginners are welcome. Arrive by 5:45, since the doors close at 6, and bring a cushion and water.
Sun, Nov 22, 6–7:30 PM · Soft & SensualHappy Poly-days: Navigating Non-Monogamy, Family & the Holidays
A practical, good-humored class on holidays with multiple partners: who gets invited, what to tell family, how to split your time and how to field questions from Aunt Linda.
Tue, Nov 24, 7–9 PM · Soft & SensualConsent Conversations: When They Say No
A roundtable, not a lecture, on the other side of consent: how to handle a no gracefully, from disappointment to hurt feelings, without punishing anyone for having a boundary. It's led by educator and sex therapist Tattooed_n_Nerdy.
Tue, Nov 24, 8–9 PM · Soft & SensualSex & Women: A Women's Support Group
Honest conversation and mutual support around sex, pleasure and intimacy, for women navigating changes, rebuilding confidence or just wanting to feel less alone.
- Wed, Nov 25, 7–9 PM · Soft & Sensual
Paint and Sip: Sexploratorium Style!
Watercolor painting with an anatomy lesson on the side. Everyone gets plaster anatomical models to paint, a free mocktail and trivia all night, and the winning team takes a prize. It's a fun night out with friends or a partner.
- Thu, Dec 3, 6–9 PM · Soft & Sensual
Community Cuddles Dec 3, Goddess Temple Denver
A weeknight edition of the structured, platonic cuddle gathering: a welcome circle, consent practice, then blankets and pillows. Touch is always optional, and sobriety is required.
Fri, Dec 4, 7–10 PM · Soft & SensualSpeed Dating Beyond Small Talk | Denver Speed Dating | Tantra Speed Date®
The Tantra Institute's speed dating swaps small talk for guided connection exercises. It's aimed at open-minded singles and runs about three hours.
- Sun, Dec 6, 4–5:30 PM · Soft & Sensual
Sacred Sensuality Series | Women's Somatic Embodiment Circle
A trauma-informed women's circle with breathwork, guided movement, journaling and conversation about body, pleasure and confidence. Drop-ins are welcome.
- Sun, Dec 13, 2:30–6 PM · Soft & Sensual
Community Cuddles Dec 13 Boulder
December's Boulder cuddle afternoon: platonic, consensual touch with clear agreements and a required welcome circle. Stay sober, dress cozy and bring a pillow.
- Tue, Dec 22, 8–9 PM · Soft & Sensual
Sex & Women: A Women's Support Group
December's women's sexual-wellness circle: a chill hour to share, learn and support each other around desire, boundaries and connection.