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Kink & Play
Play parties, munches, rope jams, dungeon nights and lifestyle socials. Many have dress codes, house rules or a membership step, so check each listing before you go.
- Wed, Oct 28, 6–10 PM · Kink & Play
The Socially Awkward Kinkster Non-Threatening Game Night
Board games with kinksters, and the name says it all. There's a social hour from 6, games from 7, and you don't need to know the rules or talk beyond what the game asks. It's a low-key way to see the club for the first time, and no membership is needed.
Thu, Oct 29, 6:30–8:30 PM · Kink & PlayIntro to Kink: BDSM for Adventurous Lovers
A beginner-friendly introduction to BDSM and fetish culture with sex educator Kat Rainsong. No experience needed, and kink gear is 15% off for attendees that day. 18+.
Fri, Oct 30, 7–11 PM · Kink & PlayGhouls & Goblins: A Halloween Play Party
Adorn yourself in your finest grotesque. Rope, wax, impact, electricity and other consensual mischief are all welcome, and if you’d rather watch, there are couches to lounge on. Costumes encouraged, BYOB. 19+, open to non-members. Register online in advance and bring a photo ID that matches it.
- Fri, Oct 30, 8 PM–1:15 AM · Kink & Play
Taste of Kink and BDSM Play Party
Club members run tasting stations from 8 to 10:30, five tickets come with your door fee, and the dungeon opens for play at 10:45. Non-members sign a waiver at the door. 19+, $35.
Fri, Oct 30, 6 PM–2 AM · Kink & PlayTrick or Treat!
Scarlet Ranch kicks off Halloween weekend with a costume night and a scavenger hunt for adult goodies hidden around the club. BYOB, with mixers provided, and Oreads restaurant opens at 6.
Sat, Oct 31, 8 PM–3 AM · Kink & PlayCoven: The Witching Hour
LSPlayground takes over a whole hotel for Halloween: playrooms, tasting rooms, a DJ all night, live body painting, tarot, and a costume contest. Dress as a modern witch, dark priestess or something in occult couture. All 130 rooms are sold out, but hall passes are still on sale. 21+, bring your own alcohol, and entry closes at 11:30 PM sharp.
Sat, Oct 31, 6 PM–2 AM · Kink & PlayErotic Halloween Ball!
The Ranch's big annual Halloween party. The couples costume contest's grand prize is an annual Gold Pass, and there are runner-up prizes for singles too. Tickets go fast, so buy early. BYOB.
Sun, Nov 1, 5–7 PM · Kink & PlayHouse of Three Rivers — Denver Munch
A relaxed first-Sunday munch at a coffee shop for anyone in the lifestyle, kink or BDSM world, or just curious. Kink names are fine and privacy is respected. Buy a coffee to thank the hosts.
Tue, Nov 3, 7–9 PM · Kink & PlayA FemDom Teaches You How to Submit
Goddess Mak walks through the foundations of submission in consensual dynamics: communication, boundaries, negotiation and finding your own submissive voice. It's a mix of discussion, guided exercises and real-world examples, and newcomers are welcome.
- Tue, Nov 3, 7–10 PM · Kink & Play
Tight Lines: a kink life drawing event
Figure drawing, but the model is wearing rope. Volunteer riggers and models hold poses from floor work to full suspensions, with both quick gesture sketches and longer studies. Bring your own pencils and charcoal.
- Wed, Nov 4, 6:45–9:30 PM · Kink & Play
Deviant Fiction
Collaborative storytelling games with a kinky twist. Small groups pick a genre and improvise a story within everyone's limits. Social time starts at 6:45, and the door locks at 7:15 sharp. No membership needed.
- Thu, Nov 5, 7–10 PM · Kink & Play
Figure Drawing in a Dungeon
Bring a sketchbook. Community models hold timed poses, sometimes on the dungeon furniture, in a classic figure-drawing format. It's drawing only, not a play party. No photos, and the door locks at 7:30.
Fri, Nov 6, 6 PM–2 AM · Kink & PlayHot & Erotic Regalia!
A uniform party, so pick your fantasy: pilots, lifeguards, mechanics, cheer squads, military and more. The dance floor doubles as the runway. BYOB, and the restaurant opens at 6.
Fri, Nov 6, 7–8:30 PM · Kink & PlayKnife Play: Exploring Edge and Sensation Safely
An edge-play class where blades are used for sensation only, never for cutting. It covers pressure, proximity and technique, with lots of emphasis on communication and consent, through demos and optional hands-on practice.
Sat, Nov 7, 6 PM–2 AM · Kink & PlayRed Party ~ Get Ready for the Holidays!
The lifestyle club's annual Red Party, with crimson and scarlet as the dress code. Dinner at Oreads from 6, then the DJ and dancing. BYOB (bottles 750ml or smaller).
Sat, Nov 7, 5–10 PM (101 lesson at 5:15) · Kink & PlaySaturday Rope Time with Beginner 101 Lesson
Open rope practice, and on first Saturdays it comes with an hour-long 101 lesson for people who have never tied anything. Get there by 5:15 to learn a single-column tie. There's loaner rope, and observers are welcome to come solo.
Sun, Nov 8, 10 AM–1 PM · Kink & PlayLSPlayground's Casual Coffee Connections
A Sunday-morning coffee meetup for the lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy crowd, and the gentlest way to meet LSPlayground. No cover, no membership, no agenda. Just coffee, pastries and real conversation.
Tue, Nov 10, 6–7:30 PM · Kink & PlayMasculine Strength through Submission
Sexologist Erin Kate leads a class for men drawn to softness, service and surrender. Exercises and discussion cover the psychology of submission and the language to ask for what you want.
- Tue, Nov 10, 7:15–9 PM · Kink & Play
Topside Talk: for everyone who falls to the left of the slash!
A monthly discussion group for tops, dominants and top-leaning switches to swap notes and support each other. Doors open at 7:15 and talk starts at 7:30. No membership needed.
Thu, Nov 12, 6–10 PM · Kink & PlayLSPlayground's Denver Monthly Happy Hour
The lifestyle community's second-Thursday happy hour, with drink specials and food trucks out front. No cover and no profile needed, so it works well if you're new and just curious.
Fri, Nov 13, 6 PM–2 AM · Kink & PlayEDM Glow!
Black lights, EDM and free glow sticks, plus a body painter on hand to finish your look. White, neon and sheer outfits show up best. BYOB.
Fri, Nov 13, 7–10 PM · Kink & PlayFab Lab
An open rope and kink lab centered on the LGBTQIA+ community. Come to practice, learn something new or just connect. Nobody checks queer cards at the door. Arrive by 8.
Fri, Nov 13, 8 PM–2 AM · Kink & PlayKINK - Denver's Largest Fetish Ball w/ COBRAH
A full takeover of Tracks and Reelworks: four rooms of music, a live set from COBRAH, and plenty of fetish wear. The rules are firm. Ask before touching, light play only, sober play only, and no sex or nudity anywhere on the grounds.
- Fri Nov 13, 21+ · Kink & Play
KINK: Denver’s Largest Fetish Ball ft. COBRAH
Three rooms, demos, vendors, and a full venue takeover. Early-bird pricing is live now.
Sat, Nov 14, 6 PM–2 AM · Kink & Play50 Shades of Grey Fetish Ball!
The twice-a-year fetish ball at Scarlet Ranch, with safety-minded demos upstairs and down and vendors selling fetish wear and accessories. Think leather, lace, cuffs and collars. BYOB.
Sat, Nov 14, 12–2:30 PM · Kink & PlayDenver Kinky Speed Dating Mixer: Regular Edition
Speed-dating rounds for open-minded kinky singles and couples, with mingling before and after and craft beer and wine for sale. It's run by BIPOC women focused on inclusive space. Check-in closes 10 minutes after the start.
- Sat, Nov 14, 2–4 PM · Kink & Play
Drop in Rope class with Denver Rope Bite
A drop-in rope class for all skill levels, from bedroom bondage basics up. Bring four to six 30-foot hanks of rope and safety shears. It's not a play party, and no membership is needed.
- Sat, Nov 14, 11:45 AM–1:30 PM · Kink & Play
Fun with Floggers 101
Bear covers the basics: how to aim, throw and care for a flogger, plus how to spot a good one. There's practice time, and loaners are available. The door locks at noon, and no membership is required.
Sat, Nov 14, 6–8 PM · Kink & PlayHow To Be A Dom with Goddess Mak
A practical class for exploring or refining your dominant side: voice and presence, basic bondage, negotiation and aftercare, through demos, discussion and optional hands-on exercises. Beginners are welcome.
Sat, Nov 14, 5–8 PM · Kink & PlaySelf-Suspension Saturdays
Self-tiers take over the main floor for an evening of practice, with group spotters on hand and beginners welcome. Bring a friend to spot you if you like, or come ready to swap skills.
Sun, Nov 15, 12–3 PM · Kink & PlayRope Bottom's Roundtable
A Sunday-afternoon discussion circle for rope bottoms, switches and curious listeners. Topics come from the room, things like approaching new partners, negotiation, processing pain and body image, and the hard questions are encouraged.
- Tue, Nov 17, 7–9:37 PM · Kink & Play
Denver Sanctuary Make Kinky Friends Munch
If play parties feel intimidating, start here. Love Slave runs icebreaker games from 7:30 to 8:30, then everyone mingles. Singles and couples are welcome, and you can peek at the dungeon while you're there.
- Tue, Nov 17, 6–8:30 PM · Kink & Play
Kink Scene Negotiation, Communication, and Planning
A free, lecture-style class with Q&A on working out what you want, saying it, planning a scene and processing afterward. The skills apply whatever you're into, and in non-kink relationships too.
Tue, Nov 17, 7–11 PM · Kink & PlayThe Black Fem Kink Collective Presents: A Kinky Kickback
A queer-centered kickback for Black kinksters, with a women-and-femmes space upstairs, open play downstairs and a lounge for socializing. Light bites and non-alcoholic drinks, and nobody's pressured to play. Only femme-identifying folks take dominant roles.
Thu, Nov 19, 7–8:30 PM · Kink & PlayDungeons, and Munches, and Parties Oh MY! A Guide to the Denver Kink Scene
A map of Denver's kink community for the curious and nervous. Goddess Mak explains munches, classes, play parties and dungeons, plus etiquette, dress codes and consent culture, and how to find your people.
Fri, Nov 20, 6 PM–2 AM · Kink & PlayErotic Kink Festival
Scarlet Ranch's monthly kink night, with on-stage performances (suspension, rope and more) and demos through the evening for the kink-curious. BYOB, and dinner at Oreads by reservation.