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Play parties, munches, rope jams, dungeon nights and lifestyle socials. Many have dress codes, house rules or a membership step, so check each listing before you go.

69 events

The Knotty Show flyer
Fri, Nov 20, 7:30–10:30 PM

The Knotty Show

Studio Friction, 740 Lipan St, Denver · $2021+

Stand-up comedy with a rope suspension happening next to the mic. Sometimes the comics roll with it and sometimes they get flustered. BYOB (no hard liquor), with donation beer and pizza. Tickets are online only.

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Black & White Erotic Ball flyer
Sat, Nov 21, 6 PM–2 AM

Black & White Erotic Ball

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

A noir-flavored dress-code party in black, white or very little at all. BYOB with mixers provided, and dinner from 6.

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Community Potluck Saturday Rope flyer
Sat, Nov 21, 5–10 PM

Community Potluck / Saturday Rope

Studio Friction, 740 Lipan St, Denver · $20 guests (free–$10 members)19+

Dinner first, rope after. Bring a dish to share, eat from 5 to 6, then settle in for open practice. Bring rope and a partner if you want to tie. Arrive by 6.

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Sat, Nov 21, 11:45 AM–1:30 PM

MORE Fun with Floggers: A 201 experience

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver · $1019+

The level-up class covers flourishes, swinging heavy floggers without wrecking your arm, and working two at once. It's for folks who have the basics down, with practice time included. The door locks at noon.

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Sat, Nov 21, 5–7 PM

Shibari Basics

Sexploratorium, 1800 S Broadway, Denver · $60–$85 ($150 couples)

A beginner-friendly, clothed and hands-on intro to Japanese rope bondage. You'll learn rope handling, basic knots and simple ties you can practice at home, with lots of attention on safety, consent and slowing down.

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Lady with a Whip: History of the Dominatrix class image
Sun, Nov 22, 1–2:30 PM

Lady with a Whip: History of the Dominatrix

Sexploratorium, 1800 S Broadway, Denver · $30–$60 (pick your tier)

A history lecture from kink educator Erin, tracing the dominatrix from ancient Mesopotamia to pop culture by way of myth and fashion. Dressing as your favorite version of the archetype is encouraged.

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Rope Practicum flyer
Sun, Nov 22, 12–3 PM

Rope Practicum: A Community Skillshare & Study Hall

Studio Friction, 740 Lipan St, Denver · $5 guests (free for members)19+

Think of it as study hall for rope people. Tops, bottoms, switches and self-tiers troubleshoot techniques, trade skills and dig into questions together. Newbies are welcome.

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Intro to Bondage with Goddess Mak class image
Tue, Nov 24, 7–9 PM

Intro to Bondage with Goddess Mak

Sexploratorium, 1800 S Broadway, Denver · $60–$85 ($150 couples)

A hands-on beginner class on safe ties, restraint options and negotiation, plus circulation checks, safewords and aftercare. It's fully clothed and education-focused.

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Little Black Dress! flyer
Fri, Nov 27, 6 PM–2 AM

Little Black Dress!

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

The classic: the dress code is your sexiest little black dress. BYOB with complimentary mixers and garnishes, and Oreads opens at 6.

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TNG Night flyer
Fri, Nov 27, 7–10 PM

TNG Night at Studio Friction

Studio Friction, 740 Lipan St, Denver · $20 non-members (free–$10 members)19+

The Next Generation night is for kinksters aged 19 to 35, new to rope or not. There's casual instruction on a basic knot and safety at 7:30, and possibly some rope tastings after. Arrive by 8.

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Sat, Nov 28, 8 PM–1 AM

Gateway Newbie *BDSM* Play Party

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver · $35 non-members21+

The Sanctuary's way in for people who don't know a member yet. Non-members can attend if they make the 8:30 guest orientation, followed by a toybag tour. Don't be late, or you won't get in. Cash or Venmo at the door.

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Intro to BDSM with Mtn Grrl class image
Sat, Nov 28, 5–8 PM

Intro to BDSM with Mtn Grrl

Sexploratorium, 1800 S Broadway, Denver · $50–$75 ($130 couples)

A broad, judgment-free overview of kink: consent, negotiation, power dynamics and scene planning. Fox and mtn grrl do live demos of sensation play, impact and violet wand, then you can try things yourself. It's fully clothed with no direct sexual touch.

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Studio Friction Friendsgiving flyer
Sat, Nov 28, 5–10 PM

Studio Friction Presents: Friendsgiving

Studio Friction, 740 Lipan St, Denver · Free (registration required)19+

A community dinner where the studio handles the mains and you bring a side or dessert if you like. Food and socializing run 5–7, then the space opens for rope until 10. It's free, but register ahead.

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Sat, Nov 28, 6 PM–2 AM

White Party ~ Winter Fling!

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

An all-white winter party with frosted decor and candlelight that turns the club into a snow globe. Wear your sparkliest white. BYOB.

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Wed, Dec 2, 6:45–9:30 PM

Deviant Fiction

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver · $519+

December's round of kinky collaborative storytelling. Small groups improvise a story within everyone's limits, part improv and part tabletop game. Be on time, because the door locks at 7:15.

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Thu, Dec 3, 7–10 PM

Figure Drawing in a Dungeon

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver

Timed poses from community models, set among the dungeon furniture. It's a drawing session, not a play party, and all skill levels are welcome. No photos, and no entry after 7:30.

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Fri, Dec 4, 6 PM–2 AM

Cowboy Christmas

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

Wild West meets the holidays. Saloon girls, chaps and spurs are all encouraged, and the resident DJ plays today's hits. BYOB, with dinner from 6.

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Sat, Dec 5, 6 PM–2 AM

Holiday Sheer & Sexy

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

Bring the outfit that's too see-through to wear anywhere else. Sheer tops, dresses and lingerie are the theme. BYOB, and Oreads opens at 6.

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House of Three Rivers — Denver Munch event image
Sun, Dec 6, 5–7 PM

House of Three Rivers — Denver Munch

St. Mark's Coffeehouse, 2019 E 17th Ave, Denver · Free18+

December's first-Sunday coffeehouse munch for the lifestyle, kink and BDSM curious and seasoned alike. It's public and low-key, and kink names are welcome.

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LSPlayground's Denver Monthly Happy Hour flyer
Thu, Dec 10, 6–10 PM

LSPlayground's Denver Monthly Happy Hour

Beacon Denver, 2854 Larimer St, Denver · Free (no cover)

December's edition of the lifestyle crowd's monthly happy hour at Beacon: drink specials, food trucks and easy mingling. No cover and no membership, so just show up.

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All White Glow! flyer
Fri, Dec 11, 6 PM–2 AM

All White Glow!

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

The Ranch's black-light Glow party in white and sheer, with free glow sticks and bracelets to get you started. BYOB.

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Sat, Dec 12, 2–4 PM

Drop in Rope class with Denver Rope Bite

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver · $1019+

Denver Rope Bite's monthly drop-in rope class at the Sanctuary. All levels are welcome, and you bring your own rope and safety shears. It's not a play party, and no membership is needed.

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Erotic Christmas Ball! flyer
Sat, Dec 12, 6 PM–2 AM

Erotic Christmas Ball!

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

Scarlet Ranch's annual holiday ball, with a champagne fountain and the in-house DJ. Dress in anything from ball gowns and suits to lingerie. BYOB.

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Sat, Dec 12, 11:45 AM–1:30 PM

Fun with Floggers 101

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver · $1019+

The monthly flogger basics class: stance, aim, where to strike and how to care for your gear, with practice time and loaners on hand. The door locks at noon.

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LSPlayground's Casual Coffee Connections flyer
Sun, Dec 13, 10 AM–1 PM

LSPlayground's Casual Coffee Connections

Full Frame Beer & Coffee, 1139 20th St, Denver · Free (no cover)

Coffee, pastries and frank, friendly conversation about open relationships and ethical non-monogamy. It's a low-key Sunday morning with no cover or membership needed.

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Tue, Dec 15, 7–9:37 PM

Denver Sanctuary Make Kinky Friends Munch

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver · $519+

A low-key munch with icebreaker games from 7:30 to 8:30, then mingling. It's a gentle first step into the Sanctuary, and no membership is required.

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Erotic Kink Festival flyer
Fri, Dec 18, 6 PM–2 AM

Erotic Kink Festival

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

Scarlet Ranch's monthly kink night, with on-stage performances (suspension, rope and more) and demos through the evening for the kink-curious. BYOB, and dinner at Oreads by reservation.

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Sat, Dec 19, 11:45 AM–1:30 PM

MORE Fun with Floggers: A 201 experience

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver · $1019+

Advanced flogging: flourishes, heavier floggers and double-handed work, with practice time. It's for people who already have the basics. The door locks at noon.

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Winter Wonderland! flyer
Sat, Dec 19, 6 PM–2 AM

Winter Wonderland!

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

The club becomes a snowy forest for its annual winter party. Wear icy blue, dazzling white or as little as a winter nymph would. BYOB, with dinner from 6.

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Sat, Dec 26, 6 PM–2 AM

Erotic Kink Affair

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

A Saturday kink-themed party, so wear leather, lace, collars or anything kinky. BYOB with mixers provided, and dinner at Oreads by reservation.

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Sat, Dec 26, 8 PM–1 AM

Gateway Newbie *BDSM* Play Party

Denver Sanctuary, 2620 W 2nd Ave Unit 1, Denver · $35 non-members21+

A play party built for newcomers. Non-members get in by attending the 8:30 guest orientation, followed by a toybag tour. Arrive on time and bring cash or Venmo.

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New Year Eve Gala! flyer
Thu, Dec 31, 6 PM–2 AM

New Year Eve Gala!

Scarlet Ranch at Squirrel Creek Lodge, 8109 Blakeland Dr, Littleton

One of the Ranch's biggest nights, with a DJ, a club-wide champagne toast and a 2,000-balloon drop at midnight. Buy tickets online in advance, since day-of pricing is higher. Dinner is by reservation only.

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NYE Mischief flyer
Thu, Dec 31, 8 PM–3 AM

NYE Mischief

The Playground, LSPlayground's Aurora home · $100 couples, $80 solo men, $30 solo women ($10 more day of)

LSPlayground rings in 2027 at its three-level Aurora house with a vetted guest list, play spaces and a black-and-silver dress code. House rules start with an enthusiastic yes. BYOA.

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